INSIGHT-ORIENTED
INDIVIDUAL THERAPY
In-Person + Virtual
in Tucson, Arizona
Self-Expression.
Honesty.
Connection.
Meaning.
E R I N L O V E
LICENSED ASSOCIATE COUNSELOR
ARTIST
I’m Erin.
I am a therapist and artist located in Tucson, Arizona.
I love working with highly sensitive individuals, neurodivergent minds, artists, introverts, intuitives, and outsiders of all kinds.
I believe there is a place for you in this world, even when it feels like it wasn’t designed with you in mind at all.
Using a trauma and attachment informed approach, I strive to create an atmosphere of safety, consistency, and containment, while simultaneously promoting risk-taking and emotional honesty.
My practice is queer-affirming, non-pathologizing, and collective liberation oriented.
Therapeutic Approach.
I use an Insight-Oriented approach to counseling that integrates Experiential and Humanistic therapy modalities.
INSIGHT-ORIENTED COUNSELING
HOW IT WORKS
I use a variety of therapeutic modalities to help clients work towards their goals in therapy, but I operate primarily from an insight-oriented approach.
The goal of insight-oriented therapy is to help you understand how events and relationships in your past go on to inform your current experiences and perceptions of yourself, others, and your surroundings.
This Includes Elements Of:
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More formally known as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Parts Work is a trauma-informed approach to therapy that views every individual person as containing a multitude of parts - or subpersonalities - within themselves.
Each one of these “parts” is viewed as a separate entity with its own beliefs, behaviors, and set of duties that it contributes to the overall internal system, as if it were an actual person with specific ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving. Our parts each contribute to our self presentation, and show up as the various aspects of our personality, our preferences, inner conflicts, and aversions.
IFS is a powerful modality for tending to deep emotional wounds because it acknowledges that trauma often causes fragmentation of the self, with parts pushed into extreme roles as an adaptation to traumatic events and overwhelming circumstances.
The IFS process facilitates a gentle exploration of these parts with compassion and curiosity, and recognizes that no matter how “negative” or dysfunctional a part presents as, all parts have valuable intentions that are oriented towards safety and self preservation.
Parts Work aims to create a safe space for every aspect of a person to be witnessed, heard, and reincorporated into the self concept in more supportive ways. The IFS process is focused on helping us explore, understand, and accept the various aspects of who we are by acknowledging the functions each part plays in our life.
The goal of IFS work is to achieve more trust in self, create more harmony between parts in conflict, and encourage a sense of inner balance, which can ultimately facilitate personal growth and transformation.
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Existential-Oriented Therapy aims to explore the fundamental questions of human existence in a safe and supportive environment. It explores the “big”, overarching themes of life that aren’t typically part of our day to day conversations with others.
This often involves a good deal of time spent in reflection, discussion, and introspection to help individuals confront their anxieties, fears, and uncertainties.
From exploring personal values and beliefs to contemplating life's meaning and purpose, an existential therapy approach encourages people to deepen their self-awareness and embrace their freedom to create meaning in their lives.
Through engaging in activities like journaling, mindfulness exercises, and discussing existential concepts, clients can gain insight, find clarity, and work towards living authentically in alignment with their true selves.
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Compassion-Focused Therapy is a therapeutic approach that focuses on developing compassion for oneself and others.
In CFT, individuals are encouraged to develop greater self-compassion and understanding to help alleviate the internal and external challenges they face.
By growing in awareness towards our own distress, and recognizing distress as a shared human experience, we can learn to respond with kindness rather than self-criticism to the parts of ourselves that are hurting.
Through various techniques such as guided imagery, mindfulness, and cognitive restructuring, CFT aims to build emotional resilience and promote overall well-being.
This approach can be particularly beneficial for those struggling with issues like shame, self-criticism, and low self-esteem.
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is focused on helping individuals accept the challenges that come their way through learning which elements are out of their control and committing to the actions that will enrich their lives.
In ACT, we are encouraged to acknowledge and observe our thoughts and feelings without judgment, rather than ignoring or rejecting them or blending with them so completely that we allow them to make our decisions for us.
The core idea of ACT is to help people clarify their values and commit to taking action that aligns with those values, even in the presence of difficult emotions or thoughts.
By fostering psychological flexibility, ACT empowers us to develop a greater sense of self-awareness, learn effective coping strategies, and ultimately lead more fulfilling and purposeful lives.
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Mindfulness practices involve bringing deliberate attention to the present moment without judgment. By focusing on sensations, emotions, and thoughts as they arise, we can cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Techniques such as deep breathing, body scans, and meditation help calm the overactive mind and increase clarity. Regular mindfulness practice has been shown to reduce stress, anxiety, and depression while improving overall well-being.
Engaging in mindfulness practices and rituals allows us to stay grounded amidst life's chaos and nurture a deeper connection with ourselves, others, and the world around us.
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Narrative therapy is a collaborative approach that views individuals as the experts of their own lives. It focuses on understanding the stories we tell ourselves and how these narratives shape our perceptions and behaviors. Through externalizing the problems we face, we can separate ourselves from the issue and explore alternative storylines that empower growth and change.
Narrative Therapy exercises often involve activities like journaling, letter writing, or creating genograms to map out family relationships. Through the intentional practice of these exercises, clients can challenge limiting beliefs, discover new possibilities, and ultimately rewrite their life stories in a way that promotes growth and healing.
Through careful deconstruction of dominant narratives and a focus on strengths and resources, narrative therapy helps people rewrite their stories in a way that promotes resilience, self-compassion, and a sense of agency in creating meaningful change in their lives.
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Self-expression through the creative act encompasses a wide range of activities that we can utilize to explore and communicate our emotions, thoughts, and experiences.
Creative self-expression can provide a nonverbal outlet for other forms of communication to come through, allowing us to communicate in ways that words alone may not capture.
Additionally, the very act of art-making can be therapeutic, cathartic, and transformative for individuals seeking a deeper understanding of themselves and their inner worlds.
Through engaging with creativity as a tool to amplify the aims of the therapeutic process, we can gain access to our subconscious, process complex feelings, and find insights into our inner life that may not have felt available through traditional talk therapy alone.
AS YOUR THERAPIST,
I offer a nurturing, inspiring, and creative space where you can uncover various aspects of who you are and where you've been…
…while setting intentions for what comes next.
THE PROCESS
The therapeutic process looks and feels different for everyone.
It can be a relatively short term commitment taking place over a matter of weeks, months, or years, or it can be a regular part of a lifestyle that is focused on personal development and emotional wellbeing.
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The first stage of therapy involves ensuring the right fit between you and your therapist. It is crucial to first establish a safe container where sensitive work can take place.
Then, using a hands-on and creative approach to therapy, we will deepen your understanding of yourself, your strengths, as well as challenges specific to you.
During this stage, any resistance to the process of therapy will make itself known. While resistance to inner work can slow down the overall process, the aversion itself is worth exploring in therapy to help soften these ingrained protective responses.
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‘Insight’ is a term often used in the realm of psychology to describe a deepened awareness regarding a person or situation. It involves gaining a sudden clarity that was previously out of reach.
Discomfort is not uncommon during the insight phase because facing repressed material can bring up painful emotions. As insight emerges, so does an increased understanding of one’s own role in challenging dynamics and responsibility to change.
Insight plays a crucial role in the therapeutic process by encouraging you to explore your inner world and make meaningful changes that honor the needs of your mental health and wellbeing.
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The experience of growth unfolds uniquely for each individual, but relies on embracing vulnerability, confronting fears, and nurturing the seeds of change within oneself.
Once vulnerable feelings and deeply ingrained protective responses are understood within the context of your history, you can feel more equipped to take on future challenges with more confidence and make any necessary changes.
In this stage, people tend to have a clear understanding of their needs, values, wounds, triggers, and boundary requirements as well as an improved ability to advocate for themselves.
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After experiencing progress, some will feel ready to leave therapy while others begin to notice deeper layers of consciousness surfacing that need further attention.
For the latter, sometimes this means we continue our work together and other times it means I will refer you to a specialist utilizing a specific modality you would benefit from.
After therapy ends, many clients experience a range of emotions as they navigate life's challenges with increased awareness. Some may feel ready to face what previously felt unworkable, while others feel a mix of relief and uncertainty.
It’s common to face ups and downs post-therapy, but the tools gained in sessions can provide ongoing support and guidance.
“To be what one is, is to enter fully into being a process.”
― Carl Rogers, On Becoming A Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy
Are you hoping to gain deeper awareness of who you are?
My approach to therapy is best suited for those seeking understanding and meaning within themselves and the complexities of their story.
a place to reconnect with your Self.
Through insightful conversations and the option of experiential activities like art-making, journaling, and guided visualization, I can help you connect the dots between your past and present.
Increased self-awareness will show you where things might be getting stuck, and can inspire you to make positive changes as you navigate life's challenges with increased clarity and strength.
Sessions can take place in the privacy and comfort of my office in Tucson
- or virtually within your own home.
COUNSELING
SERVICES:
EXISTENTIAL-Oriented Therapy FOR anyone SEARCHING for:
meaning
purpose
connection
acceptance
strength
themselves
AFFIRMING THERAPY
for
the Highly Sensitive + Neurodiverse
Sensory + Emotional Processing Sensitivities
Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)
Learning Differences
AD(H)D
Autism
Introverts
Intuitives
HUMANISTIC THERAPY
for
Outsiders
EXPERIENTIAL THERAPY
for
ARTISTS
What People are Saying:
CURIOUS?
I offer a complimentary 15 -20 min consultation to see if I could be the right therapist for you.